by Fix Relationship Author | Dec 18, 2019 | Relationship
Being told that you are “playing the victim” can shut down a conversation before the hurt or disagreement is understood. You can ask someone to take responsibility for an action without dismissing what happened to them. It helps to focus on the behaviour, who is...
by Fix Relationship Author | Dec 12, 2019 | Relationship
Repeated arguments, gossip and pressure to take sides can leave you drained. Instead of sorting everyone into fixed roles, look at what is happening, what you are responsible for and what contact you want to participate in. You can reduce unnecessary conflict without...
by Fix Relationship Author | Nov 21, 2019 | Relationship
Vulnerability can mean telling someone what matters to you, asking for help or acknowledging uncertainty. It does not require sharing every private detail or ignoring your need for caution. You can build closeness at a pace you choose while noticing whether the other...
by Fix Relationship Author | Nov 8, 2019 | Relationship
A missed plan, an unfinished chore or a conversation that goes badly can leave both people frustrated. Calling it a relationship mistake may name the disappointment, but it does not explain what needs to change. Start with the particular behaviour and the effect it...
by Fix Relationship Author | Oct 13, 2019 | Relationship
A relationship does not need to follow every old rule about how couples should sleep, socialise or spend their time. What matters is whether your arrangements are freely chosen, clearly understood and workable for both people. These thirteen topics can help you...
by Fix Relationship Author | Sep 22, 2019 | Relationship
Heartbreak can change your routines, plans and sense of connection. You do not need to turn the experience into a lesson immediately or promise yourself a new relationship. Start with what would make the next day more manageable, then consider future dating at a pace...