Being Meant to Be Together

Being Meant to Be Together

At the beginning of any relationship, you have the best time together.  You meet someone that loves you and it becomes a romance like a comedy.  You have fun, hold hands, go places together and stay up late hanging out.  You feel that you can say anything and feel like life is perfect.

This is true love, right?  It can be but it might not be.  Even if you have the best intentions, you might not be right for this person.  You could even be denying this, and you might have friends and family that tell you that he is not the right person for you, but you refuse to listen.

If you were with this person for a long time, you will realize that if you leave this person on their own and move on with your life that you could be better.

Here are some reasons you are not meant to be together:

Separate Lives

If you and your partner live separate lives and you are fine with that, then chances are they are not completely into you.  This doesn’t mean that you shouldn’t have your own time, but it means that if you cannot hang out and you don’t miss each other, then this is a big deal.

Never Agree

Maybe you are not always yelling at each other and being mean but if you aren’t meant to be together, you will never agree on things.

This could be about picking a movie, where to go eat or where to go out on a date.  If you and your partner refuse to compromise, this is a sign you shouldn’t be together.  Things should be easy and not hard.


If you see your friends more than you do your partner, are you really in love?  Even if you see each other everyday and it isn’t intimate or good, that is a sign you should move on.  You need to keep up with your friends, but you should want to see your partner more than them.


When you are with someone you should want to be intimate with them.  If this is not happening, then you need to consider if you are with the right person.  You should want to keep your hands on them and if this is not happening then you are probably not passionate over your relationship.

Holding Hands

Holding hands might seem insignificant but if you did it at first and you aren’t doing it anymore, chances are that they are losing their care for you.  It is a nice way that you can connect and if you are losing this connection then it might be time to move on.

You might think this is no big deal, but it is a sign that you are not connected to each other anymore.  Couples that are connected still hold hands and feel close to each other.

No Date Nights

If you are always wanting to stay in and never go on dates, it can be fine, but it does not seem like a happy relationship.  Date nights need to happen weekly, and you need to have a chance to go out together and show each other off.

You should be going out and spending time together in the public so you can connect.


If you find that you fight way more than you get along, chances are something isn’t right.

You might feel that all couples go through these times but when they are happening on a regular basis it can prove that things are not healthy.  Negative emotions should not what is keeping the relationship around you.  When things are bad, you have to stop fighting and have a real conversation.

No Enjoyment

If you find that you are not having fun in your life and things are being too serious, then you need to figure out if they are the one.

This should be a good thing, but you have to do things that you love or else your relationship can become toxic.  You don’t want to give up everything you love for someone and they shouldn’t ask you to.  If you are miserable then you need to consider moving on.

Blame Game

Being in a happy relationship is great and makes everyone’s life better.  You have to be in a good mood and not stress about everything and learn to enjoy life.  You might commit yourself to being healthy or to explore new things with your partner.

If you are in an unhappy relationship, this is the complete opposite, and everything will seem to go wrong.  When you are blaming your boyfriend or girlfriend for everything going wrong in your life, then you need to say goodbye and be responsible for your own happiness.


If you are peeping at other guys, then chances are that you are not completely in love with your partner.

You can be sure that you cannot love them completely if you are checking out other guys or he is checking out other girls.  You have to be attracted to your partner in order to be happy with them and this is a place to figure it out before it gets deeper.


When you find that you are spending a lot of time talking and flirting with other guys that are not your partner, this is a bad sign.  It shows that your relationship is not good, and you need to get out of it before you hurt each other.

You might feel that flirting is harmless, but it is not.  Do you want your boyfriend to flirt with other girls?  No.  When you feel that you need to flirt, it means you are not attracted to your partner anymore.

Questioning Love

It is easy to assume that you love someone when you are with them for a long time but that is not always true.  Just because you are in a long-term relationship, it does not mean that you are in love with them.

Your relationship might not always be really passionate, but you should both be excited when you are together and you should not be confused or feel unhappy about anything.


When you are with your partner, you should not be thinking about your ex.  This should be the last person that is on your mind.

If you wonder if your ex is your true love, chances are that you are not with the guy you are supposed to be with, and you should consider moving in a different direction.  This proves that you are not in love with your present partner and even if you want to be with them, allow them to move on too.


Your intuition is there for a reason and it will help you to make better decisions.  Sometimes people do not always listen to their gut instinct and this is a mistake.

People want to be safe and so they need to pay attention to what is happening inside when they find someone to date.  The relationship might be something that you need to move on from and if your gut tells you that, don’t ignore it.

Friends and Family

Sometimes other people can see more than what you see in front of you.  If your boyfriend is not a nice person or is toxic and your family is unhappy with your relationship, you might need to consider what they say to you.

Other people can see if you are meant to be with someone or if they are not healthy for you.  If someone is telling you that you need to move on, find out what they mean and don’t ignore the advice.

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