Why Won’t She Call?

Why won’t she call? Why is it that every time you want to talk to her she doesn’t call you back?

Simple. Because she is playing mind games with you.  What you need to do is give her a piece of her own medicine and not call her as well.  Let me explain…

If you don’t call a woman or a man for about a week, they tend to go crazy and start wondering why you haven’t called them back.  This is all about emotional power and you need to be at the better end of it. Trust me. 

Giving your partner a little space in life is sometimes a good thing to do.  What you don’t want to do is to continue to call and persist every day or every hour of the day.  This kind of behavior will only push them away further.  You want to hold your own and be the person that can take the emotional ups and down in a relationship.  When they see that you can do this without bothering them so much, it will make quite an impression on you that they would have never realized before. It so easy to make a person want you again by not giving them the attention they received before.  When they start missing this attention, they will come around.  But bothering them will not make this happen.  So keep your ground and maintain the confidence that you had in the beginning of the relationship.

You need to learn how to make her miss you by getting yourself involved with other social things that doesn’t include her.  When she notices that you are doing fun and exciting things without her, (by word of mouth of course) she will then open up to you again and start calling you.

It is all about who gives in first.  Remember not to call a girl every minute of the day.  Not even every day for that matter.  If you want to have her call you back make sure she calls you instead by playing the waiting game and not giving in to her mind games.

Now, she may or may not be interested in you anymore, but you are never going to know if you keep on being too persistent with her.  Learn to step back so that you can make up with her even better in the long run.

Remember that no woman likes a clingy man and allowing yourselves a breather is always a sure way to make that heart grow fonder! Trust me I know.

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