Many couples in marriages these days wait for the last minute before they change anything in their lives? Why is that? People l\need to look at themselves and see where the relationship is progressing to. If it is not that why not? Marriages are supposes to grow like plants so that you need to keep feeding them water and son so that they can continue to grow and prosper together. But most people do not understand that it is harder to keep a marriage then it is to have one initially.
The best ways to stop a divorce from ever happening is to acknowledge first to yourself that their is a problem that needs to be dealt with and then take action by putting in place a plan to maintain and help grow the marriage. Prevention is much better than stopping a divorce from happening. That is why I say to most people that prevention is the best way to ever stop a divorce from ever happening. Wouldn’t you agree? Do you wait to get sick before you ever do something or do you start making changes in your life to make something better to happen for you?
If it is past the time to prevent a divorce from happening, ask yourself if the both of you can change even now. How can you make that happen for yourself to improve your situation. What changes can you make now? Don’t wait until the last minute. Are you both willing to agree to compromise with each other or is this situation for you only as one sided as can be? If you are willing to make the change and the other person is not. Do not force the issue. But do you really want to make a permanent decision for your temporary emotion? Really think this through, especially if you have kids or not deep in your heart that it can be done by the willingness and determination to do something about it before it becomes harder for you to do so.
